01/10Do these things if you feel unloved in your relationship

Do these things if you feel unloved in your relationship

Analyse your own feelings: First and foremost you need to sit and figure out what's really bothering you. It's easy to mix up your feelings. You might be thinking that something about him is what's really creating trouble for you but it could be another thing entirely, for example; a bad day at work. So sit, analyse your feelings and try to figure out why you're feeling the way you are before you jump to any conclusions.

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02/10Try to be positive

Try to be positive

Just because things might not be going well with you and your partner right now doesn't mean things will stay bad forever. Every couple has bad phases. This doesn't mean that the bond you two share has weakened. So, try to stay positive and think positive things about yourself and your partner.

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03/10Write down how you feel

Write down how you feel

Sometimes it becomes difficult to say things out loud, so when that happens, write down your feelings on a paper and then turn it into a heartfelt letter to your partner. Do remember to keep the tone of the letter positive though. This way your partner will know how you feel and it won't make them feel as if you're putting all the blame on them either.

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04/10Ask for advice

Ask for advice

You might be surprised by how much your friends could help you out in a difficult time. More often than not, when you're going through something, only your friends will be able to understand how you feel. So, talk to them and discuss things with them. Maybe they'll end up giving you some much-needed advice that just might help make things better for you.

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05/10Don't start a fight

Don't start a fight

It's understandable that you might be frustrated but that really is no excuse to start a meaningless fight. You might be tempted to raise your voice at him and yell your feelings out at him, but that won't do either of you any good. So, don't go picking a fight and try to stay calm and resolve things peacefully. Talking to him is the best solution for you.

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06/10Get rid of any external influence

Get rid of any external influence

As much as we like to discuss things with our friends and family, it is also important to remember that these things can have a negative effect. When we tell others our side of the story they tend to judge the other person based solely on that. And all that negativity can end up clouding your judgment. Sometimes you need to trust your gut and figure things out on your own.

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07/10Talk, talk and talk

Talk, talk and talk

Once you're done analysing how you feel, if you still think something is wrong with your relationship the only thing that will really help is a heartfelt conversation. So sit with your partner and talk to him. Who knows, maybe a good conversation will clear things up and show you that you just may be worrying over nothing. After all, conversations are the best way to clear things up.

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08/10Be direct

Be direct

This is really important. We women tend to beat around the bush by giving men subtle hints about what we think is wrong. And then we get frustrated when they don't understand us. Well, they can't read minds so do both of yourselves a favour and don't beat around the bush. Be direct. Explain the problem to him very clearly. Trust us; this usually clears things up really fast.

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09/10Listen to their point of view

Listen to their point of view

We all tend to get defensive when we tell the other person that we have a problem with their behaviour. But the 'it's not me, it's you' behaviour won't do anybody any good. As much as describing your issue is important, listening to what he has to say is important too. Give him a chance to explain himself. Maybe he didn't even know you felt this way. So keep an open mind.

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10/10Spend more time together

Spend more time together

Once you both have narrowed down the problem you will need to work on it. In any relationship, it is important to spend time together. Start small like meeting for lunch between office breaks and then try to take it up a notch by going away together for the weekend. Whatever the two of you are comfortable doing, do it. As long as you spend some stress-free quality time together, nothing else will matter.

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