Things your boyfriend might want but will never ask you for
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Last updated on - Feb 14, 2019, 13:44 IST01/16Your boyfriend might want these things but might never ask for them
They want romance as much as you do: Yes, while we all think that men don't enjoy the idea of romance as much as women do, let us tell you that's not true at all. Men do have emotions and they can get mushy too, so trust us when we say, they want romance in their relationship as much as you do.
02/16Accept help from him
There's no doubt that you might be a self-sufficient, independent woman who doesn't need help from anyone but that doesn't mean you shouldn't allow your boyfriend to help if he wants to. So, while you may think that you can carry all those bags, if he's willing to help, just let him. It's his way of showing you that he cares about you and that he can take care of you.
03/16Compliments and appreciation
Get one thing straight. No man is ever going to ask you to bestow compliments on him. But that doesn't mean he doesn't want to hear them every once in a while. So, if he comes back from getting a haircut, tell him how handsome he looks or if he made you something to eat then appreciate his cooking skills. Tell him that he's loved and appreciated.
04/16Be his friend
Yes, you two are in a relationship but that isn't enough. You also need to be his friend. Accept him for who he is and let him share his thoughts and secrets with you. Not only will this bring you two closer together, but it'll also show him how much he matters to you.
05/16Be surprised with meals
Like we mentioned earlier, he likes being pampered just as much as you do. So, it wouldn't hurt to make him his favourite meal every once in a while right? And if you're not that good of a cook, you could always set an ambience and order takeout. In the end, it's the gesture that matters.
06/16Share his fantasies
Now, this is obviously something that most people don't talk about openly. But even if this requires a bit of probing, ask him. It'll help you get to know each other a little better and it'll be a lot more fun for you than your normal monotonous routine.
07/16Spoil you
We get that you might not be someone who's too mushy, but men like to spoil the women they date. If he wants to treat you like a princess, let him. What do you have to lose? Just enjoy it while you have it and give him the freedom to do as he pleases.
08/16Say no to your friends once in a while
Of course, spending time with your friends is important. And you definitely can be a lot more casual around them than you are with your family. But sometimes, your boyfriend just wants to spend some time with you alone. So, try not to head out to your friends' places every chance you get. Stay and spend some time with your boyfriend too.
09/16He likes to be pampered
Think of something special for him. Plan a dinner date or even better cook his favourite meal for him. If you expect him to pamper you all the time, can't he expect you to pamper him a little too? Trust us, he'll fall in love with you all over again. A little gesture is just what he needs.
10/16Put your phone away
Technology might have made our lives easier but it can also make relationships a lot more difficult. Sometimes all you need to do is put down your phones and have an honest conversation. Start by ensuring that you keep your phones away when you eat and then gradually try and limit the amount of time you spend on your phone when you're with him.