When you receive a compliment from someone you admire, your first reaction may be to deflect the attention. This holds true especially for those who aren’t used to receiving compliments often. Some people aren’t really good at accepting compliments either way. Gratitude is the only acceptable way to acknowledge someone’s kind remarks and sincere thankfulness is the best way to react to that gratitude. No, it won’t give off the appearance of pride or vanity and here’s how it’s done...

It is the simplest phrase you can say, but it sends a powerful message. It is unassuming, humble and shows your gratitude. When you receive a compliment, say something like, “Thank you, I appreciate your kind words.”

Receive every compliment with unassuming gratitude. Avoid phrases like, “Oh, it’s no big deal,” or “Thanks, but it was nothing.” When you downplay a compliment, you may feel that you're showing humility, however, it may make the person who gave you the compliment feel personally rejected.

If the compliment is in regards to a team effort, acknowledge the contributions of your colleagues. Some powerful executives reach a point where they no longer publicly recognise or give credit to the people who contributed to the work. That's the wrong thing to do. You could respond with something such as, “We all put in a lot of effort; thank you for acknowledging our hard work.”

Whether it's accepting a toast or receiving an award or simply saying "thank you", ensure you follow appropriate etiquette. It will prove to your peers and seniors that not only are you worthy of the compliment but also are someone who knows how to graciously accept it.

Most of us tend to “out-compliment” someone and we think that it’s the right thing to do. However, it isn’t. Avoid the temptation to “out-compliment” someone. You may feel inclined to say, “Thank you, but everyone knows your contributions were much more valuable than mine.” Avoid it. Simply embrace the moment and show your gratitude.

Body language is a powerful communication tool. And non-verbal cues like crossed arms and a casual posture might give away a negative vibe. Lean slightly forward and smile when you receive someone’s praise. Crossed hands, especially at the workplace, give off a very negative vibe. Try to avoid it at all times.

If you receive an award at a public ceremony, accept the award with your left hand. This will allow you to hold the trophy, plaque or certificate and leave your right hand free to shake hands. Show gratitude to those who show you gratitude always.

If someone pays you a compliment in the form of a toast, don’t drink from your glass at the end of the speech. Nod your head in acknowledgement and smile. When everyone has enjoyed a sip of their beverage, stand and offer a toast in return.
Avoid making the mistakes mentioned above the next time someone pays you a compliment.