Things you don't need to tell anyone about your relationship
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Last updated on - Jan 29, 2019, 13:47 IST01/10No one needs to know these things about your relationship
All the intimate details: As much as you think you should discuss your bedroom affairs with your friends, trust us, that's not the brightest idea. There's absolutely no need to tell your friends what your boyfriend likes or dislikes in bed. You most certainly would be horrified if you found out he was telling his friends about these things, wouldn't you?
02/10About their family
Yes, there's a big chance that you might end up not liking some certain members of his family but it's really okay. These things happen. There's no need to go telling the world about your preferences. Always remember that if ever things take a turn for the better in your relationship, these tiny details can come back to bite you later.
03/10Don't put up cryptic messages
Sometimes when we don't have anybody to talk to we end up venting on social media platforms. Not only is this something that is too personal to share but it is also something that people will end up being super confused about especially if you're being cryptic about it. Instead, be calm and figure out what it is that's bothering you and then address the issue.
04/10Relationship anniversaries
Getting married is a whole different story but when you're in a relationship, nobody apart from you will really care about your anniversaries. Rather than create a fuss about them and tell everyone about them, try to do your own little thing for each other. After all, it is your anniversary and not anybody else's.
05/10Comparison
Stop comparing your partner with your friends, your siblings, your ex and god knows who else. Stop comparing how tall, dark, rich, poor he is or isn't. Every person is unique and has unique capabilities. Each person has their own personality and if you can't love them for who they are then you shouldn't be with them in the first place. Nobody wants to hear you constantly comparing your SO to others. All that will make them feel is that you really aren't happy with the person you are with.
06/10About your fights
So, you had an argument with your boyfriend. Big deal. All couples fight. There's no reason to go about telling everyone what happened and asking for their opinions. What happens between you and your boyfriend should stay between the two of you.
07/10Money problems
Everybody has tough days. Chances are your boyfriend might have borrowed some money from you on certain occasions or you might have helped him out of a tough situation. But that doesn't mean that you should go around telling people that he has money issues. Not only will this tarnish his image in the minds of your friends, it will also end up hurting him if he finds out.
08/10Personal problems
Your boyfriend trusts you and this trust has helped him confide in you about his personal problems. So, don't go around telling your friends what your boyfriend is going through. What he has shared with you is personal and there's no reason for you to break his trust like that.
09/10Past relationships
Your boyfriend might have told you some things about his past relationships. As much as you might not like some of those details, that doesn't give you the right to talk about them with other people. It'll only make people feel that you're either insecure or jealous.
10/10Constant nagging
Yes, your boyfriend might constantly leave the toilet seat up and he might always leave wet towels on the floor but complaining about it consistently to your friends isn't really going to help. If you're so annoyed with him then maybe he is the one you should talk to.