Often times, people have an anxious or activated attachment style. This means they don’t feel comfortable in a ‘safe’ relationship. Such kind of people are so used to a chaotic relationship, they confuse a peaceful, healthy relationship with a boring one. If this sounds like you, it is time to reassess how you look at things.

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For relationships to grow, both the partners need to be comfortable being vulnerable with each other. Being vulnerable also increases a sense of intimacy and connection with the partner. When you don’t allow yourself to be vulnerable to your partner, you are also stunting the growth of your relationship, which then makes it boring.

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If you’re worried this might be true, it probably is. If you get into a relationship with someone you start losing feelings for easily, you might just be confusing a little crush for deep feelings. If you intend to be in a long term relationship, you must have one with a person who you think is worthwhile. Unsure about what kind of people you like? Make a list of the qualities you find attractive. If you find someone who has more or less the same traits, only then consider being with them.

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Whoever coined the adage, communication is key knew his hit. A good communication not only involves active talking, but active listening. If you don't practice active listening in order to really understand your partner, it's hard to move your relationship past the superficial. When you aren't connecting with your partner in a deeper way, it can make them and your relationship seem boring.

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