Ways to stop crushing on your office cutie!
Last updated on - Mar 12, 2019, 11:34 ISTShare fbsharetwsharepinshare
01/8This is how you get over your crush at work
What makes looking forward to a new day at work might not be work or friends at all times, but that one person you find extremely cute in your work space. You find yourself crushing over that adorable face but it all would only work out well if the person crushes back on you too. In most cases it isn't so. And hence, getting over your office crush is pretty much the only option you're left with, unless you don't mind quitting your job. So, before you take your crushing to a whole new level, here are ways how you can stop it.
02/8Move away from their desk
If you happen to have your desk just around their desk, make sure you move yours as far from them as you can. You don't want to see their face again and again to deviate you from your moving on.
03/8Stop taking whatever they say as flirting
It's one thing to have a conversation and it's another to assume conversations as flirting. Since you have a huge crush on this office cutie, chances are that you'll take whatever they say as them trying to hit on you. No, they aren't. And so, you need to stop!
04/8Imagine the complications it'll bring at work
If things happen to work your way and if the cutie ends up having a crush on you as well, it's going to be way too complicated than you think it could get. You both will be the center of attention and people will make gossips around you and your relationship might suffer because of the people around you. Do you want that? No!
05/8Don't spend time over lunch with them
It might get too tempting to hang our with your crush over lunch since there are other office people on your table too. But you can't feed your feelings and let it grow into something which isn't going to end anywhere. It's a crush, it has to go away.
06/8Don't try your hand at 'harmless flirting' with them
Even if they flirt with you, take it as some kind of office banter and move on. Do not even try to flirt back. And don't think of what they said and make it sound like a whole new romantic thing, because it isn't.
07/8Try not to bump into them at the coffee machine
If you still don't manage to see this cutie standing at the coffee machine and bump into him, just make your coffee and leave. Don't even think of having a conversation with them over coffee. It's a bad idea. Chances are, you might keep staring at them and also probably stupidly smile. Not good.
08/8Don't confess about your crush to your office friends
Never! It's better to keep a secret or two from your office friends. Because if in case they get to know how big of a crush you have on this cute person, even if you try to get over it, they won't ever let you see the end of it. You know how it gets, teasing and acting like a bunch of immature people. So it's better to stay strong and stop day dreaming about your crush at work. Because if things were to work your way, they would have. And if they aren't happening as you think they should, it's time you end it.