“When you’re constantly feeling unhappy or unsatisfied in the relationship, it may be difficult to think of happier times," says an expert. So, naturally if you feel this way about him it just goes to show that you aren't happy in the relationship.

We know this sounds like it's a line from a film but it actually is true. Just because you've committed to someone doesn't mean you feel a spark or butterflies in your stomach when you see them. Love feels like everything in the world but your partner is a blur so if you don't feel strongly about him, chances are you're not as into him as you thought.

More often than not, when couples spend time apart from each other, most of their thoughts are occupied by memories of their partner. But instead, if you find yourself barely thinking about your partner at all, then it's probably because his impact in your life isn't that great.

Usually it's the guys who start wanting some "me time" while you both are seeing each other. But when you aren't in love with the guy, you subtly start distancing yourself and wanting some time apart from him. Because honestly, when you are in love, it kills to leave them or say goodbye at the end of each day even when you know you're going to see them the next day. But if this doesn't happen, you possibly aren't there just yet.

More often than not people tend to avoid introducing their partners to family and friends when they're embarrassed by their partner. If that's the case with you then you really need to rethink your relationship. If you're worried that everyone will judge you for the choice you made with him, then you really need to understand that things won't work out well for you.

Never, and we mean never let anyone ever tell you that you aren't good at something. If your partner makes you feel fat or shames you for wearing certain things or makes you feel inferior about yourself in any way then this relationship will never make you happy.

One of the ways to know you are fully into your relationship is by knowing you are proud of your partner and that they make your heart swell with pride. So, if your partner never made you feel proud of them, chances are you never liked them.

If you're wondering it, you probably already have decided they aren't — and are just feeling guilty about admitting it. Again, there's nothing inherently wrong about feeling this way. What's wrong is staying with someone when you feel this way, because even if you think you're hiding it well, trust me, they can feel it.

When you're in love, you think, eat, sleep thoughts about this one guy and only him. But if you aren't and you're already wanting to meet other guys and hang out, you should know you're not in love.

Once you are in an argument with this guy, your main intention is to only be right. You don't really care about sorting things out or it doesn't hurt you when you two fight. You'd rather just keep your ego high up and let the guy know that you're making total sense. Yeah, that's not love, darlin'!