Weddings are fun, especially when they have three days of pre-wedding functions before the main wedding followed by a reception. It's such a fun time that you spend with your friends and family. You bond with everybody all the more, you dance and sing and invest all your time in this one occasion. But no matter how much you try to perfect it all, there are a couple of things that upsets you. One of the major ones is the behaviour of guests.
Certain people invited at the wedding somehow want all the attention on them which ideally should be on the bride and the groom. They nag about things not happening according to their comfort and also complain when someone doesn't co-operate with their wants and needs. But that's exactly what no one wants at a wedding. This is why, we're here to give you some lessons on how to NOT behave while you're invited at a fun wedding.
- First things first, you cannot talk about how you would have planned the wedding while you're literally at the wedding. This one time, keep your opinions to yourself and try blending in with how the wedding actually takes place. Because nobody would want some lessons about how it's done. It's rude, get rid of it.
- It's a wedding, not a vacation, so don't have your own schedules and moods while you're expected to wake up and be present at a location for some pre-wedding functions. Someone has planned the wedding with a lot of effort and pain and invested a lot of money and time into it, don't ruin it for them.
- You shouldn't, rather cannot ask about the costings. It's a personal topic of discussion not meant for you. And they're already stressed out while spending and organising so much only so that it's a fun affair for everyone who attends. They don't want someone reminding them about the finance that went down into it again and again.
- You should only be there to attend and enjoy the wedding, not to handle things privately unless otherwise asked to. You don't know a lot of details about the scene at the wedding, so don't interfere because it will only lead to misunderstandings that is not at all needed.
- The whole wedding revolves around two people getting together. And there will be times when the bride and the groom might need a moment or two of privacy to themselves. Don't intrude and ruin it for them. They need to talk about a few things here and there or simply be to enjoy whatever is happening. You can't keep taking their privacy away time and again. It's very annoying. Let them be.
- Lastly, stop complaining! Not everything is about you and you shouldn't be throwing tantrums while you're at it. Of course, you have a different taste or a different opinion about something, but you're not the one who's getting married, so you can't have a say in it until you're asked. Adjust, compromise and live according to what is scheduled by others this one time.
